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The Kissing Quandary
Q: I have a big problem that I don't know how to handle. My new boyfriend is a wonderful lover and enjoys sex, but he doesn't like to kiss. I've never encountered this before. At first I didn't care, but now it really bothers me. No one has ever complained about my kissing technique, and I always keep my breath fresh. Have you ever heard of this before? - Angela, New York, NY
A: This could be what is delicately called "an issue." Look at it this way: The mouth is the one of the first ways we take in new information from the time we are born. Early on this is how we explore our world to see what feels right, tastes good, etc. As adults we do the same thing - only instead of searching for food, we look for friends. The fact is, kissing is central to intimacy and often to sexual arousal.
If your boyfriend dislikes it, you've got to question his ability to maintain a relationship and keep you sexually interested. I suggest you ask him if there is a reason he dislikes kissing you. Do you kiss in a way that puts him off? If there's no problem with your technique or your breath, I would tend to think that he has some problems with intimacy. Stay with him if you want, but be warned: When you start to get close, he might end your relationship with the big kiss off.
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