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Achieving Full Blood Flow in Uncomfortable Environs
Q: I'm dating a guy that has a few different hang-ups about sex. The first one is that he always wants to have the light on. He says he doesn't want to miss anything. Fine. Often we'll indulge without lights, which is okay, I'm flexible.
My longtime boyfriend also says he's unable to achieve "full blood flow" in places that remind him of unsexy things. For example, my parents' summer house, certain cheap motels, restaurant coatrooms, etc. How can I get him to relax out of his environment? - Kelly R., Myrtle Beach, SC
A: Hmmm... Full blood flow. Don't want to be restricting the spigots. Perhaps the first question should be if he's a boxers or briefs man?
Another suggestion is to introduce him to a few old friends: Dewars, Tanqueray, Absolut, and many more. We're not condoning alcohol as the solution for everything but hey, it can't hurt. The legal drug (in moderation) can make any place a bit sexier. They're also portable.
Loosen your guy up a little. If a little drink isn't available, or he doesn't drink, it's time for round two. This is where KingLove.com and your sexiness are a deadly combination. Get some music going. Improve the lighting and the mood with a candle. If he's visually impaired, an erotic massage could sure be enticing. Try showing him a sexy undergarment or more. If he's a thinker, talk about how sexy he is. Your sexiness, perhaps some fun items from our shop, and of course, a refresher or two are generally unstoppable! You'll see his hang-ups dissipate faster than you can say "be my Valentine."
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