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The Perfect Kiss (& The Right Size)
Q: Dear KingLove,
Actually I have two questions. One is what is the proper technique to kiss and the other is what size penis can satisfy most women. Mine is 6 inches and a little skinny. Tommy, USA
A: T, you cut right to the chase! We'll start with the Kissing Question. There are guys from around the world that will appreciate the answer to this one.
Gentlemen... slow down and enjoy the art of kissing. Try not to be obsessed with thinking about where the kissing will lead. OK, that may not be totally possible, but you've gotta try!
Everyone has their own idea of a perfect kiss, or the best way to kiss a lady. Here's the breakdown of the latter from a very skilled Romeo...
The perfect kiss starts out slow with gentle touches, exploring the outside of her mouth. (Once the breath check is complete it's time to explore a little further.) Now it's time to get serious. Gently let your tongues meet, slowly at first and let the passion build. NEVER let too much spit build up on the lips. Moist is good - slobber bombs are not. When you feel the passion building, pull back and run your tongue over her lips for a little turbo charge. Not all ladies love this move, so you may want to save this move for when you have a better idea of her preferences. Most women will let you know with subtle body language or a soft little moan that they like what you're doing. It never hurts to place your hand on the back of your lady's neck and pull her in close.
Now for the close. The finale of the perfect kiss is to end up where you started. You want to ease back out and go back to the gentle touches. If everything is going right, start over, with the neck, the ears, perhaps the breast and..... you know the rest of the story.
Below are some gems some Foxy Lady Pals of the King. They share the Good, the Bad & The Ugly:
THE GOOD
Slowly and gently. Two soft kisses, them slip her the tongue. Do not slam her the tongue, slip it. If she's backing away from you as you kiss her, you may be a little too enthusiastic on the tongue thing.
Here is the proper order of things (a short list): First, lips. Second, tongue. Encountering a tongue before you encounter their lips is a) gross and b) something that guys like. Girls don't like it.
But that's technique and what about getting there? Do NOT ask permission. What am I, Princess Grace? One friend had a guy ask "Can I kiss you" and she shrugged and said "I don't know, can you?"
Announcing to the world at large that you're about to kiss someone is also kind of silly -- the "I'm going to kiss you now" spiel, because then you have to sort of look "ready" and it's just too scripted -- just shut up and kiss the damn girl. Anyway, words are for the inept. You can easily tell if a woman wants to be kissed or not, by one simple thing: if when you talk to her, she leans forward, into your space. The body doesn't lie.
If you're a good kisser, she'll probably tell you so. If she's shy about saying so, you should at least be able to tell if she wants to keep kissing. If so, keep up the good work.
THE BAD
Do not breathe through your mouth and kiss through your mouth at the same time.
Do not do the old dental probe: licking along the teeth line is very slobbery and un-sexy.
THE UGLY
And then there is what my friend Dina described as "larva tongue" (gah!) which is when he can't make up your mind if he's going to use his tongue so it just sits at the entrance to his mouth making feeble little flailing movements. Apparently not a turn-on.
The CPR technique. As one friend described it "it felt like he covered my entire mouth and nose with his mouth and I was drowning in this horrible wet cave." Ick.
A slobbery kiss can also be mildly horrific. You know, the kind of kiss that when you're done you have to wipe your mouth off on your sleeve. Yeee-hah! No thanks!
Now you've got some great kissing techniques. As for your thin, half foot Johnson, it's fine. Sure, there are some ladies that may prefer a bigger unit, just as some men prefer women with larger breasts. However, all women would appreciate if you were skilled with your own machinery and technique. If you really want to become a better lover, check out KingLove.com's books and videos. You'll learn a lot about more enjoyment for you both! Remember, great lovers are made, not born!
Best of Luck,
KingLove
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