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"Sharing a Special Book"
by A.D. Bezila
My gorgeous & outspoken wife and I have been married for close to two great years. As those of you in a committed relationship know, it's not always easy. We've had a lot of fun and success with something that we want to share. If you're married or in a relationship try this idea. Some may even call it a communciation technique.
We've found that sometimes there are words that are to hard to say face to face. Sometimes emotions become too powerful (positive or negative) and this is a way to make sure two people in love can really understand and better appreciate your partner. It's a winning strategy.
My wife and I started a journal that is placed in a neutral spot in our apartment. It's there whenever the other person wants to share, vent, or explain their thoughts. We've made it a rule that there are no oral discussions
to the messages. Thoughts are shared without interruption. Whatever one writes is just heard or replied within the pages of the journal.
It's pretty easy to try. Feel free to modify this general idea anyway you want. Whatever works best for you and your partner.
It has helped limit verbal disagreements and provided a way that each person
feels heard without opinions. We put the pen inside the journal to signal
that a message is present. It may help to truly hear your partner - which is a great deal.
Good luck on your ride.
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